What’s up guys?

I want to ask you a question; what makes someone attractive as a guy and socially powerful? I’ve been asking myself this question for some time now so I can…frankly…have a lot of women find me sexy, and make other men respect me more.

I’ve now found out a few things from watching some people I wanted to be like in life, changing out in the real world as well as through study. Now I want to share them with an audience.

If you didn’t already know this about me, I work at a nursery….no not like a child daycare nursery, but a selling plants and hard physical labor nursery. I have done this for five years now.

I work with plants. I dig them, plant them, carry them, and sometimes load them on trucks, I am also the crew leader with about 7 people right under me at any given time. I’m just saying this to give you reference as to why you might want to listen to me on this topic. continue reading…

What we learn isn’t power until we use it, this post is about being productive so please for the love of god don’t just read this page and then forget about it in three days. DO SOMETHING WITH IT!!!

Actually, really, out in the real world, implementing what you learn from other people is a big part of being productive, learn something new and do it, learn something new and do it, learn something new….you get the picture.

Usually the really important things we should be doing are the ones we hate the most. I’ve found that it’s best to just get the crap outta the way so we can relax, it gives us this sense of accomplishment and even more of a reason to finish the rest of the work which is kind of a piece of cake from there on. continue reading…

Is playing video games too much hurting your social life or relationship with your Girlfriend or Boyfriend? Could you get a lot more done if you could only stop playing the Wii, Xbox 360, PS3, or PC? A whole lot of people would answer yes to this believe it or not, not most of them but still a lot of people play video games regularly, more so guys than girls for some reason.

Did you know that 65% of US households play video games? Of those who play, the average person games for around 18 hours a week or a total of 39 WHOLE DAYS out of the year, holy…crap…that’s A LOT of time that could be used for something a bit more worthwhile since gaming really doesn’t invest anything in our future or make us better people.

I remember when I use to play video games ALL THE TIME, to the point where it was making me call off work because I’d stay up too late the night before, nerding it up. I never wanted to leave the house or talk to people anymore because the imaginary worlds on the games seemed so much more continue reading…

When I was younger, I was one of the shyest and strangest people you would ever meet. Seriously, people would come over to my mom’s house and for years I would always hide in my bedroom because I was too afraid of them looking at me bad or rejecting me…yeah…I was that bad off.

Never mind talking to women, or hanging out with a lot of friends, I had no friends, because I just couldn’t risk the rejection. There was a lot of things socially wrong with the way I was back when I was a kid, many things I’ve fixed, some I still haven’t, but I’ve learned a really valuable lesson about accepting rejection along the way, and that iiiiis…

We can’t REALLY see ourselves fully, I know you’ve probably already came to that same idea somewhere in your life where what you think about yourself, or want to believe about yourself simply isn’t true. What we are is kind of obvious on the other hand to other people though whether we want to hide it or not, eventually or immediately the truth about ourselves shines through. continue reading…

Have you ever experienced a time in your life where you’ve tried to change…and was able to make a shift for a few weeks at max, then when you stopped paying attention to it, it would just go back? I think I have figured out why this is something that me and you have in common.

I know you’ve noticed that all of us only have a limited amount of willpower that we possess at any given time, it’d be nice if our will was absolute and we were like Gods but it seems more like we can always change some crap in our lives but often after that will storehouse runs out we’re back at square one…this is how I’ve come to understand getting past that and after using this formula in my life for a bit, seeing profound changes happen with it, I want to share it with you.

Here comes the scientific sounding part…outside influences in our life; friends, family, the communities we hang out in (this one included), what type of info we allow into our brains (reading a self-help book as compared to watching the news on T.V.) where we live and how it’s kept…all of these are natural affirmations in our environment that continue reading…